How To Get Yourself A Girlfriend

TODAYS TOPIC: HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND ***

  Ok look...

  This is actually pretty simple if you know
what women are looking for in a guy. To be
honest, I can tell you right now WHY you haven't
found a girlfriend yet.

  See, you may have found a special woman you
WOULD LIKE to be with, but she just doesn't feel
attracted to you.

  She does NOT feel the same way towards you
than you do to her.

  How come?

  Because you didn't give a woman what she needs
to feel sexually attracted to you. She may think
you're a nice guy and a good friend, but that's
as far as it goes. She doesn't see you as a
potential boyfriend or lover.

  And that really sucks ... so we need to
change that.

  So what are you doing wrong? What is it
that makes women tell you that "you are a
nice guy, but not really for her?"

  Well for once...you are a god-damn wussbag!

  A woman doesn' reject a man if he doesn't
have anything to offer to a her like money,
a muscular body, a fancy sports-car and good-looks.
That's not the case even thought everybody thinks
that way.

  It's not because women think you are a
weirdo or you dress like a bum.

  It's not because you think all those stunning
women are out of your league.

  There I something else.

  You haven't found a girlfriend or a woman that
loves you for who you are because you are just
being yourself...no, no.

  It's because women don't like men who act
like wimps and clingy nice-guys.

  Now...READ MY LIPS: You are a wimp!!

  See, you have been YOURSELF all your life...
and has it worked? Not really. But you don't
want to become a different person either and
I respect that. The good thing is, you won't
have to change at all ... you just need to IMPROVE!

  I need to show you what really works with women,
and give you the necessary knowledge and some of
my killer dating tips that actually work in the
real world.

  Not just any kind of dating tips...I am going
to show you how ANYBODY, regardless of how rich,
tall or handsome you are can meet and date the
kind of women you always wanted!

  So why don't you have a girlfriend yet?

  Because nobody has ever told you what to
do to successfully attract women. How could
you? Most men aren't born with the gift of
making women laugh, giggle and sweeping them
off their feet.

  It is an art, and if you've never really
understood why women pick certain men over
others, you have some learning to do.

  So here's what I want you to do:

  STOP being a wuss!

  - Don't kiss a woman's ass.

  - Don't buy them drinks.

  - Don't pay them any compliments.

  - Don't invite them to dinner or to the movies.

  - Don't bring flowers, chocolate, a cuddly-toy
    or ANYTHING at all!

  It only shows a woman that you are a clingy,
needy nice-guy who wants to BUY a woman's affection
...and attraction cannot be bought, EVER!

  If you do, she will either walk all over you or
just tell you that you are a nice guy, but "let's
rather be friends!". And here's another thing.
The more you want sex from her, a long-term
relationship or even just a kiss ... the less
you will get it.

  Women don't like what they can have right away.
If you are too pushy, needy and "easy-to-get",
you are not a challenge for any woman and
therefore BORING!

  The key is to be interesting!

  So STOP what you are doing RIGHT NOW...
and get it right!


*** COMMENT ***

Hey I really must comment you for the mails,
I got from u. I would get the book latest next week.
it really worked!!!!! The chick had to confess about
my self confidence. All I could say inside of me
was thanks to mails from nick. The more I receive
those mails the bolder I've become,since naturally
I am a very shy guy. Thanks again!

Oli.
Singapore


>>> MY COMMENTS:

  Wow

  Now that is awesome to hear.
I think I just became famous in singapore...


*** SUCCESS STORY ***

Nick     
First of all I want to say thanks man!
I've had your books for about a week and
a 1/2 now and it's turned my life around.
I'm 32 years old and I've just gone through
a divorce It's been rough man. and after 8yrs.
of marriage it's not easy getting back into
the dating scene again. since I've studied your
materials I've had 1 coffe date and I've gotten
2 phone numbers. I seem to be having alot of
luck at the mall and at the local wallmart.
I"m still struggling with some confidence issues
though. today I was in the cafeteria area at the
mall and 2 gorgeous chics were sitting at a table
and the both looked at me as I walked by so I
stood in line to get a slice of pizza...got
my pizza and sat at a table 2 tables down from
there's one of them glanced over and the other
one turned around for a look the wispered back
and forth and that was it I was like a deer stuck
in the headlights I didn't know what to do or say.
It's bad enough when your aproaching 1 girl but
2 girls that's rough. do you have any advice for me bro.

Johnny
Inglewood, USA

>>> MY COMMENTS:

  Allright, here's what to do:

  This is much easier than it looks like, and the
fact that she is with a friend shouldn't bother
you.

  If you ready my material then you should know
that if there is a group of two girls...you can't
ignore her friend because if you do, she will DRAG
your target away.

  I see guys fall into that trap all the time.

  They ignore her friend, only talk to the one
they like...and then they lose because her friend
says "sorry, we have to go" because she gets jealous.

  Now, let's deal with the approaching or walking up
first.

  You see, when they are sitting down and you don't
feel comfortable enough to just walk over there, grab
the nearest chair and plant yourself down next to them...

  ...then I have the PERFECT technique for you.

  WAVE!

  Yes that's right.

  When they look at you, whisper and giggle, you GOT
to make a move. They know you are checking them out,
they know they got your attention.

  But they are now testing you if you are man enough
to handle the situation.

  Just WAAAVEE SLOOOWLY ... and put on a cocky grin.

  In 99% of the cases, they will wave back.

  THIS is your cue. Now you can either go over
and say "Hey ... will you please stop staring at me like
that ... I'm not a sex-object you know" or ... just make
a COME HERE gesture, telling them to come over to you
and join you.

  But the situation isn't COLD anymore...you have an
open invitation to approach and talk to them.

  Try it, it works.

  And make sure you pick up a copy of my Secrets Of Attraction
book to give yoruself teh extra edge when it comes to
situations like this.

  It is essential you know what is going on in a woman's mind
and how to create that ATTRACTION at the snap of your fingers!

  Get your trial copy here:

  ==> http://www.StreetSmartDating.com/Attractionbook


*** SUCCESS STORY ***

Hey Nick,

I really want to thank you for what you've
done and I can't begin to tell you how much
my life has changed thanks to your programme.
You also walk your talk which which I respect
you for. Before I read your newsletters I would
see a girl I'd think "shes fit" and never
dream of having a chance but now you've opned
my eyes I think "shes fit. I wonder how fast I
can get her number." It amazing! Anyway to my
questions. I met this girl about six months ago
(a long time a ago I know but its still annoying me)
in the summer leave at university and I
really fell for her (this is before I read
your newsletter) and I admit I was being
clingy with her but we went out a few times during
our holiday and we just talked and we really got on,
we talked for hours without any silence or
anything. But as soon as we got back to university
she went all weird on me, I tried to talk to her
but she was really quiet as if she had never talked
to me before. It was really weird. So my question
is why would she do this? And what are the most common
excuses women give men and how to counter them?

Cheers m8 I look forward to reading your "Secrets of Attraction".

Tom
U.K.

>>> MY COMMENTS:

  Oh boy!

  Why would a woman ignore you after you
have talked to her for HOURS, pouting each others
hearts out...talking about men, women, love and
relationships?

  You felt there really was a connection...and so
did she.

  You know what was missing?

  SEXUAL ATTRACTION!

  She thinks you're a great guy, but ONLY as a friend!
She doesn't think you are boyfriend material...and she
also knows that you want to be with her.

  That's why she ignores you know. Why?

  You even answered yoru own question there: Because
you were a CLINGY, NEEDY and NICE WUSS!!!

  What excuses will she give you now?

  "Well, you're a really nice guy and I think we got
along great...but I only like you as a friend"

  There you go! If you behave like a clingy, needy nice-guy,
you deserve to become a woman's friend...and no kissy-kissy
for those guys!

  WAKE UP MAN!

  You need DE-WUSSIFICATION...fast!

  Don't do it again, learn how to create sexual and
emotional attraction in a woman so you will become her
lover and boyfriend instead.

  Now go and study my newsletter and hit the books!


*** QUICK SUCCESS STORY ***

Hey Nick,
Fantastic news. Last Friday I finally decided to give
your "buy ME a drink" formula a try. It worked like a
charm. Without further ado the lady put her phone number
in my phone. To put it midly I now have her at my leisure.
Thanks a million!!

Rob
Fort Lauderdale

>>> MY COMMENTS:

  Great story ... next time, why don't you try the
"buy Nick a beer as he is the greatest" formula?

  lol!


*** QUESTION ***

Hi Nick

bought your book a few days ago and gotta say it
really helped me get more numbers than I used to but
heres the problem. I have always done pretty well with
girls who I talk to in quiet normal places like shops,
malls, coffee shops or at private partiers etc using your
techniqes, but when it comes to clubs I just dont seem to
have any success. Me and my friends go out every saturday
and they all seem to go off with girls leaving me the loner
at the bar. You see because the clubs are loud and I have
to shout, I cant seem to come across as the cool calm guy that
I am. None of the lines work simply because they just can't
hear them, and after I repeat a line several times to the same
girl because of the noise they dont have the same affect.
I was just wondering Nick if you could give me any tips in
certain body language to use, and some cool one liners that
dont take long to say, another thing with me in a club is that
one of my main techniques is not to ask a girl to Dance but to
hold my hand out this way they can check if they want to dance
with me or not without me coming across clingy. This always works
for me as they always grab my hand and I lead them to the
dancefloor, BUT for some reason while we are on the dancefloor
my mind goes blank and I just dont know what to say to her so
after a few minutes of dancing she goes off with her friends
and im left alone AGAIN. I've watched my friends dance with
other girls and they will say something in the girls ear and
she will be laughing I've always wondered what there saying
and when I ask them they just say they can't remember, they've
obviously got some sort of techniqe down but dont want to share it.

I hope u can help me Nick....... thnx for reading and get back
to me ASAP

Phillip
Liverpool, England


>>> MY COMMENTS:

  Allright let me address this one at a time here.

  First of all, everybody who says that clubs or bars
are just too lout to meet women is completely braindead.

  BUT ... you are right: Clubs and Bars are louder!

  Is that a problem? Hell no! You just have to rethink
your logistics. Look, on the street you can talk pretty much
anywhere you want as the environment PERMITS it.

  However, when you stand next to a lawn-mower or
a chainsaw rattling at full speed ... what do you do?

  You MOVE 10 STEPS AWAY!

  Listen, I used to have the same problem in clubs and
everybody thinks that there is no solution, but all you
have to do is make a gesture that you didn't understand
what she just said or that it's really loud, take her
hand and literally WALK (!) to the the bar, another
corner or away from the loud music in the club.

  99% of the women will FOLLOW you when you LEAD, so
just make that gesture, grab her hand and move away
10-15 yards where you can talk. Get it?

  Now, I like your "stick out your hand" to get a woman
to dance with you. I used to do the same but found an
even better solution that works EVERY SINGLE TIME, you'll
learn it in my DVDs.

  But to answer your question: "I've always wondered what
my friends were saying to a girl on the dancefloor that
makes her giggle" ...

  Well, what do YOU think they are saying?

  Could it be that they are teasing her? Busting her
balls that she dances like a little heffalump from
winnie-pooh? Telling her that she has the same cheeky
face like their bratty little sister?

  Are they asking her what she does apart from picking
up cute guys like them?

  Attraction, anyone?

  The secret is what I've been talking about for the last
gazillion days in my newsletters, books and DVDs man!

  ATTRACTION! ATTRACTION! ATTRACTION!

  Now go and read up on that boyle, you got some
studying to do!

...and if YOU are reading this right now and you'd
like to get YOUR dating life handled all the way,
to find out how to get an intelligent and beautiful
GIRLFRIEND ... then you MUST learn how to make women
feel the magical emotion called SEXUAL ATTRACTION for
you by communicating with them in ways that other men
don't!